Sexuality - precisely the "female decoy" to which so willingly "pecking" representatives of the male. What to do if you do not have sexuality? It turns out that out there!
Each day consists of a set of events: the road to and from work in the subway or the suffocating traffic, communication with colleagues, meeting with friends and family, shopping ...
And in the evening - a long-awaited meeting with the beloved, when you can forget about the strict dress code, trouble at work, the eternal mother's claims and to be "the most charming and attractive." And can be cherished throughout the day or week? Can probably only here for what?
"I can be sexy when I want" - is the main argument, which lead women. But for some reason a lot of beautiful and successful women, "who are able to incorporate their sexuality on demand" and remain alone. So what's all the same problem? No time "include"? Or in the wrong places?
What determines sexuality?
Sexuality does not depend on the size of breasts and hips, sexy - this is your own inner feeling. It is both biological and social in nature: some characteristics of sexuality laid down genetically, others are formed in the process of socialization.
Therefore we can not "include" or "off" sexuality, her need to feel constantly. For women - more than for men - sexuality is a fundamental tool of interaction with the opposite sex.
Quite often beautiful, intelligent, successful, but, alas, single women. Of course, all at once there is a dumb question: "What's missing these peasants?". A lack of incentive. Incentive to win this very beautiful woman. Because, despite the beautiful appearance, success and all the other undisputed dignity, sexuality, she does not possess.
Women for men, especially, has always been and still remains a sexual object and select the very object allows the presence of women in the very sexuality, about which we women try to forget, to hide it as much as possible.
By sexuality we mean and depravity, and accessibility, and promiscuity in sexual relations ... However, these concepts have nothing to do with sexuality!
Being sexual - not meant to be accessible. Being sexual is to be open to men, cause they have the desire to possess a woman, if she so wishes.
It is in the form of sexual female representatives of a strong half of humanity manifest themselves as a real man to conventional notions, because this encourages the natural instinct - to have the best woman.
War of the sexes
Many modern women have lost their femininity and grace that have always been inherent in them.
At the fair half of mankind have the desire to take a superior position in relation to men, and it plays against female sexuality. To feel sexual was identical to feel insecure, and we allow no means can.
We have forgotten that the power of women - in its weakness. This law of nature is indestructible. And that sense of insecurity and is a force against which the impotent men.
While we are trying to cheat nature, and to wrest from men palm to prove his superiority to them and put on his knees, nothing good will come of it. Number of friends here will decrease exponentially, and the number of single women living with the idea of "all the guys - its a ...." - To grow.
Women are afraid to exercise their sexuality, and men are not seeing them as sexual objects, do not show their best qualities.
The result - a vicious circle: women hide their sexuality, naively assuming that they have "remote control" to "inclusion" of sexuality itself, at any time, which leads to the complete inaction of men.
The losers in this case, both men and women, but also disrupt your normal way of life can not be solved none. War of the sexes continues, and while each side is dreaming about the world.
Women have "weapons" are not the tools, and such a struggle is doomed to failure. But every man for possession of the sexual woman would do everything possible and impossible ...
How to awaken her sexuality?
Do not hide your sexuality! Feel it 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. And then, to your surprise, these men will be around much longer.
Try to feel their sexuality, to feel it. To do this, there are many so-called "exercise", for example:
1. Try to find a representative in each male something attractive, whether he is a businessman in an expensive suit or a road worker. One - handsome, another - a good figure, a third - a stunning sight ... There is no people in appearance and character of which - some shortcomings and disadvantages.
2. Refuse to wear underwear. Most likely, you'll begin to feel discomfort. Try to feel their vulnerability and begin to enjoy it.
3. In fact, the continuation of the first exercise. Try to imagine which of the men around you to have sex, which he in bed and so on.
4. One of the most effective exercises - a combination of the 2 nd and 3rd!
Begin to disclose and to feel their sexuality with these simple tasks. Keep in mind that for sexual woman there is only one problem - the problem of choice of many worthy men most worthy.
Sunday, November 22, 2009
Pluses and minuses of virtual sex
Virtual sex is becoming more popular: search the internet network issue many references to this theme, offering customers a worldwide network of sex chat rooms, special programs and so on ... But is there any advantages to the virtual sex and whether it is worth it to do?
Under the virtual sex and sex can be understood on the phone, communicate via sms erotic content.
But today's article - about virtual sex online. With the use of webcams and headsets, special programs, or only through rapid communications in a special sex chat, he still is cybersex.
Let's try to understand why sex with virtual partners became so popular.
Pluses
1. Risk of unwanted pregnancy does not exist
Well, this by itself - is it possible to get pregnant, dealing with Wirth partner via webcam or text by typing on the keyboard of his computer.
Therefore the question of preservation, of course, disappears once - you do not have in anticipation of a night of love with the monitor to run to the drugstore and stock up on condoms.
And if virtual sex happens unplanned, you can not deny myself the pleasure of the reason that fear to become a mother.
2. STDs will not threaten
In principle, the points from the same series as unwanted pregnancy.
Naturally, having no real tactile contact, infected with anything it was simply impossible - even banal SARS, not that STDs.
This, of course, this point even more advantages than the previous one - in fact a cure for AIDS has not yet been found.
And how many people require help from their partner sexually transmitted infection clinic that he is not the bearer of this terrible disease?
3. It becomes possible to find a partner for a few minutes
Find a sex partner - this is often a fairly lengthy process.
To get started, usually with a partner to get to know, after - to find common ground (to know him better, to communicate), and only when it is time for sexual intercourse; agree, is not such a big percentage of women agreed to have sex with absolutely unknown man encountered in a bar or club.
But in finding a sexual partner, virtual, everything happens much faster and easier: just go to the sex forum, "select" a suitable candidate (often a choice based on the principle "you have an interesting nickname), and" retire "in private (or withdraw from the forum and start a virtual sex via webcams and headsets).
4. You are not raped
Given that the propensity of a new partner to distortions often they were not openly expressed, there are cases when a girl, first agreeing to spend the night with a new man is in a deadlock.
Meeting at his home can be not only enjoyable copulation your languishing passion of a pair, but the most severe variation of group sex - in fact it may well be invited to your meeting your friends.
But more often the case the situation is different: man, sex with whom you may happen is not the first time, persistently requires you to implement his sexual fantasies. This can be anything up to a hard sadomasochistic.
And it not a fact that when you refuse to submit to his demands, he and best wishes to take you home ...
Often, when the partner's desire to go against the wishes of the partner, the latter yields to her lover, and agrees, for example, to anal intercourse, which, to put it mildly, it was not to their liking - and then feels humiliated and raped - in moral terms, of course, but it is easier from this woman?
Virtual sex you can stop at any time if you do not agree with his desires, or simply changed their mind, - and you do not have to fear negative consequences.
5. This is a chance to get rid of the complexes
We can say that part of the paragraph is a continuation of the previous one.
For example, you do not like to engage in anal sex, but your sexual partners Reale persistently sought to "inculcate" you love him.
Virtual sex may well become an assistant in the acquisition of a new look at the previously unloved in sexual relations.
But there are more important thing: for example, you hesitate to have sex in broad daylight (due to, for example, believe that their figure is far from ideal).
But this is nothing but a complex - this you can say any sexologist.
Virtual sex via a webcam in principle, impossible in the dark, so it may help get rid of this - and not only that - a psychological time.
6. You can dream up plenty
Most of all - that is, if virtual sex happens in the chat.
You can imagine yourself what you like, but most importantly - to present as his sexual partner, even Brad Pitt.
You can nafantazirovat environment in which there is sexual contact, music, odors, postures, technology - anything.
In general, create illusory picture of his dreams - and your partner will support you, that life is not that often.
Cons
1. With a virtual partner of tactile sensations
That do not say, as a virtual partner exists only on your computer screen as a live view (if you are a virtual love via webcam), or multiple messages.
He can not kiss you, caress, and so on. He will never be able to enter into your heart - all this have to do to you, so to speak, for two.
Many engaged in cyber-sex, stroking the screen, at peak times if trying to touch someone who is a partner. But they will never be able to do so ...
2. It's too complicated way to get an orgasm
In essence, virtual sex - through a webcam and headset or chat in sex chat room - this is just masturbation.
Even a live conversation with the chosen sex partners who are "on the other side of the World Wide Web, use a vibrator and other paraphernalia from the shop for adults do not make an act of self-satisfaction from intercourse with a real partner.
But if, using your webcam, your hands are free and you can stimulate their erogenous zones as you like, then sex chat - quite a complicated thing.
Not so easy at the same time trying to get an orgasm, and print the answers erotic content on the keyboard.
Moreover, there is a moral dimension. Many people, deciding on a virtual sex, unable to "break yourself" and exposed himself to a stranger, or to paint all of its intimate charm in all its glory.
3. Cyber sex is unlikely to be the beginning of a serious relationship in Reale
When people find their love in a worldwide network, units, and they are rather "exception to the rule." But such people binds only communication ...
With virtual sex all the more difficult. It is very difficult: to agree to meet someone who saw you masturbating (ie, engaged in virtual sex with you, that, essentially, the same as stated above) in front of a webcam installed on your home computer screen, or even with those to whom you wrote in the sex chat so candid things.
Moreover, in the sex chat rooms, many lie about their appearance and sexual preferences, so the meeting will expose the reality of total lies ...
Still, it should be recognized that virtual sex - it just sort of fun, and not a way to meet the unique and unrepeatable.
4. You are unlikely to get moral satisfaction
Sexual satisfaction for women is often impossible without a moral. She just need to feel cherished and unique.
After all, why so many women want to talk after sex, and not only on the just concluded the sexual act?
Because it is very important to know that she was interested in a partner rather than simply meet the object of lust.
And how can I get this same moral satisfaction through virtual sex? Send a message to him, "How I was good with you? Sit webcam and jointly plan for the future?
5. You will not know anything about your partner
Especially if you have virtual sex in the sex chat.
He can tell you about myself, what he pleases, to describe myself in this Alain Delon - and in fact would be a taxi driver in the little gray forever greasy jacket.
You also can not be sure that he will be unmarried - and for many, especially single in real life, women's status of a partner, even virtual, has a value.
You can not also be sure that it does not begin to tell users of the same sex-chat, what you're bad lover or, conversely, a good that is unlikely to be pleased to know one day from one of the regulars of the chat.
Also, he may well write your "holy night", if you had sex through the webcam, and distribute pornozapis in the same online. Would you like that?
6. You can too carried away by a virtual life
In principle, the search for virtual sex partner can already be considered a kind of bell that the real life you do not have everything in order.
After all, most likely began with a lot of time in standard chat rooms, and communicate with real people gradually began to go into the background.
After all, agree that it is not quite normal that if you have many men next door (you're one day meet a huge number of representatives of the strong half of mankind, is not it?) A woman begins to look for a partner for sexual comfort stations for the World Wide Web?
The worst thing that slowly your life can completely move into the virtual space. especially considering that not so few people are currently working on the Internet from home.
But Internet addiction - is already a disease.
Virtual or real sex - what to choose?
Of course, you can not decide for you, what more suitable for you.
For example, virtual sex may help to cope with the complexes - and it is a very good thing, because sexual complexes do not provide the whole gamut of feelings from the congress, which is available in full emancipation of man.
On the other hand, there is also another option: you get rid of the complexes only in its virtual private life, but in reality they are so you will remain.
Only that: the complexes can be added here. For example, you begin to fear the real-life partners because they feel unable to meet them just as well as satisfy the virtual.
Or another possible disadvantage: engaging in virtual sexual intercourse, you may lose the ability to get an orgasm with a partner.
But it is possible that this place takes plus minus: you will find a new erogenous zone, understand where and how you want to caress, and get a real orgasm with a partner will be much easier.
And yet I am anxious to mark their opinion.
Advances in technology - it is very good, on the one hand, and very bad, with a different point of view.
The emergence of the Internet - is a breakthrough, the ability to create a e-mail and use it for his own pleasure can receive a letter in a few seconds after it is sent to your companion, and not to purchase the envelopes and long not to state the addresses as needed tickers ...
But this is bad: we have forgotten how to write letters - and we get a letter through the mail is much more pleasant. In any case, me.
With the invention of ICQ has become possible to exchange instant messages with people who are at the other end of the Earth.
But this is bad: feeling, tone, expressed in a telephone conversation have been replaced by smiles, and it became painfully dry and laconic ...
Cyber sex - not whether he will replace us real? Will the real sex, as in the famous film, whose names I do not remember the name "exchange of fluids?
I still think that sex - is not just a set of movements, but also interweaving of souls.
And fall asleep on the shoulder of the person with whom you spent an unforgettable night, and that you likable - it can not replace a lonely sleep at the computer is off. Although, who knows ...
Choose something that is close to you. But do not forget that the replacement for the human soul is not found, and is unlikely to be found.
Under the virtual sex and sex can be understood on the phone, communicate via sms erotic content.
But today's article - about virtual sex online. With the use of webcams and headsets, special programs, or only through rapid communications in a special sex chat, he still is cybersex.
Let's try to understand why sex with virtual partners became so popular.
Pluses
1. Risk of unwanted pregnancy does not exist
Well, this by itself - is it possible to get pregnant, dealing with Wirth partner via webcam or text by typing on the keyboard of his computer.
Therefore the question of preservation, of course, disappears once - you do not have in anticipation of a night of love with the monitor to run to the drugstore and stock up on condoms.
And if virtual sex happens unplanned, you can not deny myself the pleasure of the reason that fear to become a mother.
2. STDs will not threaten
In principle, the points from the same series as unwanted pregnancy.
Naturally, having no real tactile contact, infected with anything it was simply impossible - even banal SARS, not that STDs.
This, of course, this point even more advantages than the previous one - in fact a cure for AIDS has not yet been found.
And how many people require help from their partner sexually transmitted infection clinic that he is not the bearer of this terrible disease?
3. It becomes possible to find a partner for a few minutes
Find a sex partner - this is often a fairly lengthy process.
To get started, usually with a partner to get to know, after - to find common ground (to know him better, to communicate), and only when it is time for sexual intercourse; agree, is not such a big percentage of women agreed to have sex with absolutely unknown man encountered in a bar or club.
But in finding a sexual partner, virtual, everything happens much faster and easier: just go to the sex forum, "select" a suitable candidate (often a choice based on the principle "you have an interesting nickname), and" retire "in private (or withdraw from the forum and start a virtual sex via webcams and headsets).
4. You are not raped
Given that the propensity of a new partner to distortions often they were not openly expressed, there are cases when a girl, first agreeing to spend the night with a new man is in a deadlock.
Meeting at his home can be not only enjoyable copulation your languishing passion of a pair, but the most severe variation of group sex - in fact it may well be invited to your meeting your friends.
But more often the case the situation is different: man, sex with whom you may happen is not the first time, persistently requires you to implement his sexual fantasies. This can be anything up to a hard sadomasochistic.
And it not a fact that when you refuse to submit to his demands, he and best wishes to take you home ...
Often, when the partner's desire to go against the wishes of the partner, the latter yields to her lover, and agrees, for example, to anal intercourse, which, to put it mildly, it was not to their liking - and then feels humiliated and raped - in moral terms, of course, but it is easier from this woman?
Virtual sex you can stop at any time if you do not agree with his desires, or simply changed their mind, - and you do not have to fear negative consequences.
5. This is a chance to get rid of the complexes
We can say that part of the paragraph is a continuation of the previous one.
For example, you do not like to engage in anal sex, but your sexual partners Reale persistently sought to "inculcate" you love him.
Virtual sex may well become an assistant in the acquisition of a new look at the previously unloved in sexual relations.
But there are more important thing: for example, you hesitate to have sex in broad daylight (due to, for example, believe that their figure is far from ideal).
But this is nothing but a complex - this you can say any sexologist.
Virtual sex via a webcam in principle, impossible in the dark, so it may help get rid of this - and not only that - a psychological time.
6. You can dream up plenty
Most of all - that is, if virtual sex happens in the chat.
You can imagine yourself what you like, but most importantly - to present as his sexual partner, even Brad Pitt.
You can nafantazirovat environment in which there is sexual contact, music, odors, postures, technology - anything.
In general, create illusory picture of his dreams - and your partner will support you, that life is not that often.
Cons
1. With a virtual partner of tactile sensations
That do not say, as a virtual partner exists only on your computer screen as a live view (if you are a virtual love via webcam), or multiple messages.
He can not kiss you, caress, and so on. He will never be able to enter into your heart - all this have to do to you, so to speak, for two.
Many engaged in cyber-sex, stroking the screen, at peak times if trying to touch someone who is a partner. But they will never be able to do so ...
2. It's too complicated way to get an orgasm
In essence, virtual sex - through a webcam and headset or chat in sex chat room - this is just masturbation.
Even a live conversation with the chosen sex partners who are "on the other side of the World Wide Web, use a vibrator and other paraphernalia from the shop for adults do not make an act of self-satisfaction from intercourse with a real partner.
But if, using your webcam, your hands are free and you can stimulate their erogenous zones as you like, then sex chat - quite a complicated thing.
Not so easy at the same time trying to get an orgasm, and print the answers erotic content on the keyboard.
Moreover, there is a moral dimension. Many people, deciding on a virtual sex, unable to "break yourself" and exposed himself to a stranger, or to paint all of its intimate charm in all its glory.
3. Cyber sex is unlikely to be the beginning of a serious relationship in Reale
When people find their love in a worldwide network, units, and they are rather "exception to the rule." But such people binds only communication ...
With virtual sex all the more difficult. It is very difficult: to agree to meet someone who saw you masturbating (ie, engaged in virtual sex with you, that, essentially, the same as stated above) in front of a webcam installed on your home computer screen, or even with those to whom you wrote in the sex chat so candid things.
Moreover, in the sex chat rooms, many lie about their appearance and sexual preferences, so the meeting will expose the reality of total lies ...
Still, it should be recognized that virtual sex - it just sort of fun, and not a way to meet the unique and unrepeatable.
4. You are unlikely to get moral satisfaction
Sexual satisfaction for women is often impossible without a moral. She just need to feel cherished and unique.
After all, why so many women want to talk after sex, and not only on the just concluded the sexual act?
Because it is very important to know that she was interested in a partner rather than simply meet the object of lust.
And how can I get this same moral satisfaction through virtual sex? Send a message to him, "How I was good with you? Sit webcam and jointly plan for the future?
5. You will not know anything about your partner
Especially if you have virtual sex in the sex chat.
He can tell you about myself, what he pleases, to describe myself in this Alain Delon - and in fact would be a taxi driver in the little gray forever greasy jacket.
You also can not be sure that he will be unmarried - and for many, especially single in real life, women's status of a partner, even virtual, has a value.
You can not also be sure that it does not begin to tell users of the same sex-chat, what you're bad lover or, conversely, a good that is unlikely to be pleased to know one day from one of the regulars of the chat.
Also, he may well write your "holy night", if you had sex through the webcam, and distribute pornozapis in the same online. Would you like that?
6. You can too carried away by a virtual life
In principle, the search for virtual sex partner can already be considered a kind of bell that the real life you do not have everything in order.
After all, most likely began with a lot of time in standard chat rooms, and communicate with real people gradually began to go into the background.
After all, agree that it is not quite normal that if you have many men next door (you're one day meet a huge number of representatives of the strong half of mankind, is not it?) A woman begins to look for a partner for sexual comfort stations for the World Wide Web?
The worst thing that slowly your life can completely move into the virtual space. especially considering that not so few people are currently working on the Internet from home.
But Internet addiction - is already a disease.
Virtual or real sex - what to choose?
Of course, you can not decide for you, what more suitable for you.
For example, virtual sex may help to cope with the complexes - and it is a very good thing, because sexual complexes do not provide the whole gamut of feelings from the congress, which is available in full emancipation of man.
On the other hand, there is also another option: you get rid of the complexes only in its virtual private life, but in reality they are so you will remain.
Only that: the complexes can be added here. For example, you begin to fear the real-life partners because they feel unable to meet them just as well as satisfy the virtual.
Or another possible disadvantage: engaging in virtual sexual intercourse, you may lose the ability to get an orgasm with a partner.
But it is possible that this place takes plus minus: you will find a new erogenous zone, understand where and how you want to caress, and get a real orgasm with a partner will be much easier.
And yet I am anxious to mark their opinion.
Advances in technology - it is very good, on the one hand, and very bad, with a different point of view.
The emergence of the Internet - is a breakthrough, the ability to create a e-mail and use it for his own pleasure can receive a letter in a few seconds after it is sent to your companion, and not to purchase the envelopes and long not to state the addresses as needed tickers ...
But this is bad: we have forgotten how to write letters - and we get a letter through the mail is much more pleasant. In any case, me.
With the invention of ICQ has become possible to exchange instant messages with people who are at the other end of the Earth.
But this is bad: feeling, tone, expressed in a telephone conversation have been replaced by smiles, and it became painfully dry and laconic ...
Cyber sex - not whether he will replace us real? Will the real sex, as in the famous film, whose names I do not remember the name "exchange of fluids?
I still think that sex - is not just a set of movements, but also interweaving of souls.
And fall asleep on the shoulder of the person with whom you spent an unforgettable night, and that you likable - it can not replace a lonely sleep at the computer is off. Although, who knows ...
Choose something that is close to you. But do not forget that the replacement for the human soul is not found, and is unlikely to be found.
Sex with a star: a love or complexes?
However strange it may seem, but many girls are not satisfied with just admiring idol. Millions of the fair half of mankind in our country - but if we take the magnitude of the planet, they will have billions or even more - do not agree just enjoy singing or playing Nakhichivan their celebrity. Always agree, want more.
And the stars, smiling at us from the TV screen, seem out of reach, but at the same time so close and understandable. The true ideals of men who, if you really want to, can become closer. If only for the night ...
Psychological portrait
And ... The room had the length and breadth are sealed with a poster depicting an idol, drives with his movies, concerts or singing filled all the shelves.
Countless film premieres of films, in which he starred (concerts, at which he spoke), have not been ignored - they spent the lion's share of personal savings.
On the online auction site bought a cup from which he drank coffee in a hotel in N, which takes pride of place in the sideboard .. In general, and all the dreams and thoughts - just about him.
Oh, how do you want to idol least once pay attention to it among a crowd of cheering fans, he smiled, took my hand and led ...
No, not at the altar, of course, although this option is preferable, but only in his hotel room ... To become even a tiny, but part of his life ...
Probably many do just that imagine the fans who want sex with the star, the girl who nobody notices, except for his idol, which, though invisible, but live for it, which lives only by their idol. Surprisingly, this is not quite true.
Of course, there are others but, according to the poll, more than half want to sex with the star turned out to be a very intelligent young ladies, and even say, pragmatic.
Thus, they explained that they wanted not so much of the sex, and media attention to his own person.
Simply put, their presence in the life of an idol not remained a secret, and passed on a wave of public attention, from which one can conclude that the desire for sex with a celebrity is not just ardent enthusiasm.
There were also those young ladies that firmly stated that only intercourse for one night they do not want to - they would not be averse to twirl with his idol a long novel.
But again: among the dignity of his star Prince, they pointed and its relation to the circle of known people.
That is, besides sex, such women still hoped to gain access to a secular-glamorous society in which they are unlikely to open the door in other circumstances.
About 8 percent of the respondents added that he was pleased not only with his idol had a passionate night, but gave birth to his child.
However, the question "Why?" almost all the evasive, with a truly feminine coquetry was told that "star child" surely will inherit from its parent, talent and beauty.
And only a few said that the child of a famous person can become a kind of (pardon the candor) source of income: alimony star Daddy will pay considerable.
By the way, if we talk about an extramarital child ... Several years ago in the electronic mailboxes of Russians got a very original letter.
Hard to say, was it just spam or sent by fraudsters, but the text it clearly deserves attention. Thus, the letter was read:
Many dreamed of becoming pregnant by Elvis Presley or to obtain offspring from Madonna, but now it has become a reality. We sell eggs and sperm from our stock "chosen" for the artificial in vitro:
Stars pop and rock music (domestic platform) - 20 000 USD
pop stars and rock music (foreign pop) - 27 000 USD
leading politicians - 30 000 USD
businessmen and tycoons - 50 000 USD
scholars - 12 000 USD
aristocracy (graphs, kings, princes) - 37 000 USD
Prior to artificial insemination, you will meet with the "father" (or "mother"), which will confirm to you personally, which is a donor of sperm or ova of data.
Then, of course, was a reference to an internet resource, which, as we are assured in the text, there is a detailed price list and a list of "stars donor" ...
And yet, returning to the subject. Only 12% of women (almost all of them - teenage girls) said they would agree to have sex with the star just so - without selfish motives, and all sorts of claims after. The night of passion - and nothing more ...
Why do they want sex with a star?
Perhaps, when discussing this topic it is better to turn to the opinions of professional psychologists, who argue that the desire for sex with a celebrity often speaks of the psychological problems of man.
Well, agree completely around the men and a woman only wants him - such a distant, incomprehensible, beautiful, mysterious idol.
And the one that is in such a tempting proximity, one that will be an excellent husband and father, is quite out of place and sexual attractiveness is clearly losing his phantom opponent ...
And it is not afraid of the fact that after only one night with her prince, she left with nothing - not even memories fade as soon as the see-it will be difficult, how strong was the mutual passion. And whether it was all ...
So why is it dream about sex with the star of millions? As psychologists say, sex with a known personality - is:
opportunity to prove itself as significant.
Of course, the girl who is singled out from the crowd with a loud singer name, seems itself gifted smile of fortune.
He looked at her, he wanted her, he was with her - so she's not like everything. Not an ordinary student, or manager, and the person who you like the idol.
She - special, because it wanted to millions, and got only this.
The only reason beautiful lady does not think about that "so special" she was for him only last night.
Maybe he does not particularly, well, random counter, which can easily be next, because you know exactly what it can afford only that will allow her idol.
attempt to show a friend how much brighter and its success, having achieved an idol.
In fact, only children's game - and no more. Can not even say that a girl wants from his idol is his body. Not at all!
She just needs to tomorrow he noticed her, and saw it all, with whom she came. To all clearly understand how it is better than all those on whom he did not even look.
Such a woman of courage be typed - and will be face to face with those with whom, it turns out to actual fact, it should not be.
She narrowed her eyes, depict the passion, stoically endure moral humiliation, because at least he and idol, but still completely unknown person.
And all this is, in fact, just to make the next day to tell her friends: "Oh, he is amazing man!". I read in their eyes envy. And revel in the triumph of our own ...
attempt to translate the tale to life.
On the TV screen, he plays the role of macho or delightful singing voice, it seems ideal.
Thus, the Prince, the collective image, which is still in childhood is firmly settled in the beautiful mind of every woman.
And each is looking for this prince of the passers-by checks of all men met with the mosaic of virtues and graces, which she folded with the help of his imagination.
And then he appears on screen: well-groomed, handsome, with a velvety voice, with a smile, so open and sincere, with eyes deep in which to drown ...
Usually, sex with a star in such a scenario - not just a physiological act, but also the soul.
After all, she tries to please him, so wants to please, hoping that he will appreciate what she is extraordinary.
As he understands it - his second half. Obsessed with love and sex - or not say.
But, unfortunately, upon closer examination it appears that he is not so perfect.
He did not have such smooth skin, as the photographs, he smelled no way she would have liked his facial expression it rather boring.
And after one night of passion her ardor, her obsession with ... extinguished. And she will either seek the prince in the zone are not so distant contact, or turn their attention to other stars.
desire to become famous and desirable.
Well, or get in a secular society. Or at least for a moment to find himself under the camera flashes. Perhaps the novel does not get a long night and will remain only at night.
But the front page of a fashionable woman's magazine will be her picture - smiling, holding his arm and follows him into the room.
Who knows - maybe at her, a bright and spectacular, will draw the attention of some tycoon.
And life will cease to be so prosaic, and interest shifted to the area of Rublyovka. You never can tell?
But - plans artless and almost disinterested. It happens all the much more prosaic ...
Comment specialist
Yevgeny Kul'gavchuk doctor sexologist, therapist, psychiatrist:
"If you omit the mercantile and pragmatic interests, which often are the result of specific training, such as reduced self-esteem of these women and attempt to raise it at another's expense.
The girls are going out of poverty as their own emotional life, and from the "stuck" in the platonic stage of psychosexual development. In addition, there is a distortion of reality against the background of masochistic tendencies. This condition requires psychotherapeutic work to return to normal life.
Temporary platonic passion in adolescence may be within normal limits, provided that in life remain and other components (education, work, communication with relatives). Course, slavish worship may like "stars" and flatter their vanity, but deep down they often feel contempt for such an internal fan. "
How much does a night with a star?
No, I do not have to pay it, and idol. For what? All trite and simple.
Almost no day is complete without that any rating is not a tabloid published a shocking news: "The actor N is a natural child of fans Y!".
There are, of course, obvious nonsense.
Soloist of the popular British band Culture Club Boy George was charged with one of his vozdyhatelnits that he is the father of her child, but does not want to pay alimony.
In response to such insinuations singer indignantly declared: "I never slept with women!".
Of course, most often it is nothing more than fiction once the fans and jerking the desire for a large alimony and make sure that her name was on the hearing of the world.
But many are well aware that a DNA expert to easily refute such psevdofakty ... A star child - this is the golden child!
Such "umelitsy" watched his idol at home, go to all his concerts, and after they had taken hundredth autograph - only to draw attention to himself.
They defiantly painted to be more visible against the background of all the other fans, they are louder than the others chant from the audience, and in the eyes stare starry victim simply is the brutal lust.
And because many get their way - not in the sense that give birth to a child from an idol, and that in his bed still fall.
And there unsuspecting potential future father waiting for quite a cunning ploy. More precisely, the trick is always the same: "No need to protect themselves, because ...".
And these "because" - set. For example, "I accept contraception" or "I do not like to have sex in a condom."
Unfortunately, many men - and there is no difference in stellar accessories - to protect themselves is not so fond of.
Worse: prefer to engage in unprotected sex, citing the fact that he is a great pleasure. And then, when the goal is reached, begin direct blackmail ...
True, sometimes women want a child from the star in the not criminal purposes. Exclusively for love ...
Not too exceptional housewife from Beverly Hills, sent John Travolta quite an unusual request: she asked her to sell the sperm of the actor, because he wants to have his child, while explaining that sexual intercourse is not going to.
Biological Material actor woman appreciated ... 1 million dollars!
John Travolta has refused to conclude a deal in the air of one of the TV show, ironically adding: "Now, if she offered $ 10 million, I would have thought."
***
Sex with the star ... Sounds, of course, very tempting. But is it wise to such a desire?
Think about it: most of the stars openly declare that their annoying annoying the fans, trying at all costs to gain access to their bodies.
Yes, and a fan of readily available for them - not one in a thousand, but on the contrary, one of many.
Should I wish for sex with someone who not only appreciate, but do not even try to do this, do not wish to?
After all, every woman around so many real men, gentle and caring, interesting, open, honest, with its advantages and disadvantages that make them unique.
Here's to them and we should indulge in love, build families, give birth to their children ...
Anyway, choose what you like, without going to extremes, without losing common sense and self-esteem. You Passionate nights!
And the stars, smiling at us from the TV screen, seem out of reach, but at the same time so close and understandable. The true ideals of men who, if you really want to, can become closer. If only for the night ...
Psychological portrait
And ... The room had the length and breadth are sealed with a poster depicting an idol, drives with his movies, concerts or singing filled all the shelves.
Countless film premieres of films, in which he starred (concerts, at which he spoke), have not been ignored - they spent the lion's share of personal savings.
On the online auction site bought a cup from which he drank coffee in a hotel in N, which takes pride of place in the sideboard .. In general, and all the dreams and thoughts - just about him.
Oh, how do you want to idol least once pay attention to it among a crowd of cheering fans, he smiled, took my hand and led ...
No, not at the altar, of course, although this option is preferable, but only in his hotel room ... To become even a tiny, but part of his life ...
Probably many do just that imagine the fans who want sex with the star, the girl who nobody notices, except for his idol, which, though invisible, but live for it, which lives only by their idol. Surprisingly, this is not quite true.
Of course, there are others but, according to the poll, more than half want to sex with the star turned out to be a very intelligent young ladies, and even say, pragmatic.
Thus, they explained that they wanted not so much of the sex, and media attention to his own person.
Simply put, their presence in the life of an idol not remained a secret, and passed on a wave of public attention, from which one can conclude that the desire for sex with a celebrity is not just ardent enthusiasm.
There were also those young ladies that firmly stated that only intercourse for one night they do not want to - they would not be averse to twirl with his idol a long novel.
But again: among the dignity of his star Prince, they pointed and its relation to the circle of known people.
That is, besides sex, such women still hoped to gain access to a secular-glamorous society in which they are unlikely to open the door in other circumstances.
About 8 percent of the respondents added that he was pleased not only with his idol had a passionate night, but gave birth to his child.
However, the question "Why?" almost all the evasive, with a truly feminine coquetry was told that "star child" surely will inherit from its parent, talent and beauty.
And only a few said that the child of a famous person can become a kind of (pardon the candor) source of income: alimony star Daddy will pay considerable.
By the way, if we talk about an extramarital child ... Several years ago in the electronic mailboxes of Russians got a very original letter.
Hard to say, was it just spam or sent by fraudsters, but the text it clearly deserves attention. Thus, the letter was read:
Many dreamed of becoming pregnant by Elvis Presley or to obtain offspring from Madonna, but now it has become a reality. We sell eggs and sperm from our stock "chosen" for the artificial in vitro:
Stars pop and rock music (domestic platform) - 20 000 USD
pop stars and rock music (foreign pop) - 27 000 USD
leading politicians - 30 000 USD
businessmen and tycoons - 50 000 USD
scholars - 12 000 USD
aristocracy (graphs, kings, princes) - 37 000 USD
Prior to artificial insemination, you will meet with the "father" (or "mother"), which will confirm to you personally, which is a donor of sperm or ova of data.
Then, of course, was a reference to an internet resource, which, as we are assured in the text, there is a detailed price list and a list of "stars donor" ...
And yet, returning to the subject. Only 12% of women (almost all of them - teenage girls) said they would agree to have sex with the star just so - without selfish motives, and all sorts of claims after. The night of passion - and nothing more ...
Why do they want sex with a star?
Perhaps, when discussing this topic it is better to turn to the opinions of professional psychologists, who argue that the desire for sex with a celebrity often speaks of the psychological problems of man.
Well, agree completely around the men and a woman only wants him - such a distant, incomprehensible, beautiful, mysterious idol.
And the one that is in such a tempting proximity, one that will be an excellent husband and father, is quite out of place and sexual attractiveness is clearly losing his phantom opponent ...
And it is not afraid of the fact that after only one night with her prince, she left with nothing - not even memories fade as soon as the see-it will be difficult, how strong was the mutual passion. And whether it was all ...
So why is it dream about sex with the star of millions? As psychologists say, sex with a known personality - is:
opportunity to prove itself as significant.
Of course, the girl who is singled out from the crowd with a loud singer name, seems itself gifted smile of fortune.
He looked at her, he wanted her, he was with her - so she's not like everything. Not an ordinary student, or manager, and the person who you like the idol.
She - special, because it wanted to millions, and got only this.
The only reason beautiful lady does not think about that "so special" she was for him only last night.
Maybe he does not particularly, well, random counter, which can easily be next, because you know exactly what it can afford only that will allow her idol.
attempt to show a friend how much brighter and its success, having achieved an idol.
In fact, only children's game - and no more. Can not even say that a girl wants from his idol is his body. Not at all!
She just needs to tomorrow he noticed her, and saw it all, with whom she came. To all clearly understand how it is better than all those on whom he did not even look.
Such a woman of courage be typed - and will be face to face with those with whom, it turns out to actual fact, it should not be.
She narrowed her eyes, depict the passion, stoically endure moral humiliation, because at least he and idol, but still completely unknown person.
And all this is, in fact, just to make the next day to tell her friends: "Oh, he is amazing man!". I read in their eyes envy. And revel in the triumph of our own ...
attempt to translate the tale to life.
On the TV screen, he plays the role of macho or delightful singing voice, it seems ideal.
Thus, the Prince, the collective image, which is still in childhood is firmly settled in the beautiful mind of every woman.
And each is looking for this prince of the passers-by checks of all men met with the mosaic of virtues and graces, which she folded with the help of his imagination.
And then he appears on screen: well-groomed, handsome, with a velvety voice, with a smile, so open and sincere, with eyes deep in which to drown ...
Usually, sex with a star in such a scenario - not just a physiological act, but also the soul.
After all, she tries to please him, so wants to please, hoping that he will appreciate what she is extraordinary.
As he understands it - his second half. Obsessed with love and sex - or not say.
But, unfortunately, upon closer examination it appears that he is not so perfect.
He did not have such smooth skin, as the photographs, he smelled no way she would have liked his facial expression it rather boring.
And after one night of passion her ardor, her obsession with ... extinguished. And she will either seek the prince in the zone are not so distant contact, or turn their attention to other stars.
desire to become famous and desirable.
Well, or get in a secular society. Or at least for a moment to find himself under the camera flashes. Perhaps the novel does not get a long night and will remain only at night.
But the front page of a fashionable woman's magazine will be her picture - smiling, holding his arm and follows him into the room.
Who knows - maybe at her, a bright and spectacular, will draw the attention of some tycoon.
And life will cease to be so prosaic, and interest shifted to the area of Rublyovka. You never can tell?
But - plans artless and almost disinterested. It happens all the much more prosaic ...
Comment specialist
Yevgeny Kul'gavchuk doctor sexologist, therapist, psychiatrist:
"If you omit the mercantile and pragmatic interests, which often are the result of specific training, such as reduced self-esteem of these women and attempt to raise it at another's expense.
The girls are going out of poverty as their own emotional life, and from the "stuck" in the platonic stage of psychosexual development. In addition, there is a distortion of reality against the background of masochistic tendencies. This condition requires psychotherapeutic work to return to normal life.
Temporary platonic passion in adolescence may be within normal limits, provided that in life remain and other components (education, work, communication with relatives). Course, slavish worship may like "stars" and flatter their vanity, but deep down they often feel contempt for such an internal fan. "
How much does a night with a star?
No, I do not have to pay it, and idol. For what? All trite and simple.
Almost no day is complete without that any rating is not a tabloid published a shocking news: "The actor N is a natural child of fans Y!".
There are, of course, obvious nonsense.
Soloist of the popular British band Culture Club Boy George was charged with one of his vozdyhatelnits that he is the father of her child, but does not want to pay alimony.
In response to such insinuations singer indignantly declared: "I never slept with women!".
Of course, most often it is nothing more than fiction once the fans and jerking the desire for a large alimony and make sure that her name was on the hearing of the world.
But many are well aware that a DNA expert to easily refute such psevdofakty ... A star child - this is the golden child!
Such "umelitsy" watched his idol at home, go to all his concerts, and after they had taken hundredth autograph - only to draw attention to himself.
They defiantly painted to be more visible against the background of all the other fans, they are louder than the others chant from the audience, and in the eyes stare starry victim simply is the brutal lust.
And because many get their way - not in the sense that give birth to a child from an idol, and that in his bed still fall.
And there unsuspecting potential future father waiting for quite a cunning ploy. More precisely, the trick is always the same: "No need to protect themselves, because ...".
And these "because" - set. For example, "I accept contraception" or "I do not like to have sex in a condom."
Unfortunately, many men - and there is no difference in stellar accessories - to protect themselves is not so fond of.
Worse: prefer to engage in unprotected sex, citing the fact that he is a great pleasure. And then, when the goal is reached, begin direct blackmail ...
True, sometimes women want a child from the star in the not criminal purposes. Exclusively for love ...
Not too exceptional housewife from Beverly Hills, sent John Travolta quite an unusual request: she asked her to sell the sperm of the actor, because he wants to have his child, while explaining that sexual intercourse is not going to.
Biological Material actor woman appreciated ... 1 million dollars!
John Travolta has refused to conclude a deal in the air of one of the TV show, ironically adding: "Now, if she offered $ 10 million, I would have thought."
***
Sex with the star ... Sounds, of course, very tempting. But is it wise to such a desire?
Think about it: most of the stars openly declare that their annoying annoying the fans, trying at all costs to gain access to their bodies.
Yes, and a fan of readily available for them - not one in a thousand, but on the contrary, one of many.
Should I wish for sex with someone who not only appreciate, but do not even try to do this, do not wish to?
After all, every woman around so many real men, gentle and caring, interesting, open, honest, with its advantages and disadvantages that make them unique.
Here's to them and we should indulge in love, build families, give birth to their children ...
Anyway, choose what you like, without going to extremes, without losing common sense and self-esteem. You Passionate nights!
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