Sunday, November 22, 2009

Sex with a star: a love or complexes?

However strange it may seem, but many girls are not satisfied with just admiring idol. Millions of the fair half of mankind in our country - but if we take the magnitude of the planet, they will have billions or even more - do not agree just enjoy singing or playing Nakhichivan their celebrity. Always agree, want more.





And the stars, smiling at us from the TV screen, seem out of reach, but at the same time so close and understandable. The true ideals of men who, if you really want to, can become closer. If only for the night ...



Psychological portrait





And ... The room had the length and breadth are sealed with a poster depicting an idol, drives with his movies, concerts or singing filled all the shelves.



Countless film premieres of films, in which he starred (concerts, at which he spoke), have not been ignored - they spent the lion's share of personal savings.



On the online auction site bought a cup from which he drank coffee in a hotel in N, which takes pride of place in the sideboard .. In general, and all the dreams and thoughts - just about him.



Oh, how do you want to idol least once pay attention to it among a crowd of cheering fans, he smiled, took my hand and led ...



No, not at the altar, of course, although this option is preferable, but only in his hotel room ... To become even a tiny, but part of his life ...



Probably many do just that imagine the fans who want sex with the star, the girl who nobody notices, except for his idol, which, though invisible, but live for it, which lives only by their idol. Surprisingly, this is not quite true.



Of course, there are others but, according to the poll, more than half want to sex with the star turned out to be a very intelligent young ladies, and even say, pragmatic.



Thus, they explained that they wanted not so much of the sex, and media attention to his own person.



Simply put, their presence in the life of an idol not remained a secret, and passed on a wave of public attention, from which one can conclude that the desire for sex with a celebrity is not just ardent enthusiasm.



There were also those young ladies that firmly stated that only intercourse for one night they do not want to - they would not be averse to twirl with his idol a long novel.



But again: among the dignity of his star Prince, they pointed and its relation to the circle of known people.



That is, besides sex, such women still hoped to gain access to a secular-glamorous society in which they are unlikely to open the door in other circumstances.



About 8 percent of the respondents added that he was pleased not only with his idol had a passionate night, but gave birth to his child.



However, the question "Why?" almost all the evasive, with a truly feminine coquetry was told that "star child" surely will inherit from its parent, talent and beauty.



And only a few said that the child of a famous person can become a kind of (pardon the candor) source of income: alimony star Daddy will pay considerable.



By the way, if we talk about an extramarital child ... Several years ago in the electronic mailboxes of Russians got a very original letter.



Hard to say, was it just spam or sent by fraudsters, but the text it clearly deserves attention. Thus, the letter was read:



Many dreamed of becoming pregnant by Elvis Presley or to obtain offspring from Madonna, but now it has become a reality. We sell eggs and sperm from our stock "chosen" for the artificial in vitro:



Stars pop and rock music (domestic platform) - 20 000 USD

pop stars and rock music (foreign pop) - 27 000 USD

leading politicians - 30 000 USD



businessmen and tycoons - 50 000 USD

scholars - 12 000 USD

aristocracy (graphs, kings, princes) - 37 000 USD



Prior to artificial insemination, you will meet with the "father" (or "mother"), which will confirm to you personally, which is a donor of sperm or ova of data.



Then, of course, was a reference to an internet resource, which, as we are assured in the text, there is a detailed price list and a list of "stars donor" ...



And yet, returning to the subject. Only 12% of women (almost all of them - teenage girls) said they would agree to have sex with the star just so - without selfish motives, and all sorts of claims after. The night of passion - and nothing more ...



Why do they want sex with a star?



Perhaps, when discussing this topic it is better to turn to the opinions of professional psychologists, who argue that the desire for sex with a celebrity often speaks of the psychological problems of man.



Well, agree completely around the men and a woman only wants him - such a distant, incomprehensible, beautiful, mysterious idol.



And the one that is in such a tempting proximity, one that will be an excellent husband and father, is quite out of place and sexual attractiveness is clearly losing his phantom opponent ...



And it is not afraid of the fact that after only one night with her prince, she left with nothing - not even memories fade as soon as the see-it will be difficult, how strong was the mutual passion. And whether it was all ...



So why is it dream about sex with the star of millions? As psychologists say, sex with a known personality - is:



opportunity to prove itself as significant.



Of course, the girl who is singled out from the crowd with a loud singer name, seems itself gifted smile of fortune.



He looked at her, he wanted her, he was with her - so she's not like everything. Not an ordinary student, or manager, and the person who you like the idol.



She - special, because it wanted to millions, and got only this.



The only reason beautiful lady does not think about that "so special" she was for him only last night.



Maybe he does not particularly, well, random counter, which can easily be next, because you know exactly what it can afford only that will allow her idol.



attempt to show a friend how much brighter and its success, having achieved an idol.



In fact, only children's game - and no more. Can not even say that a girl wants from his idol is his body. Not at all!



She just needs to tomorrow he noticed her, and saw it all, with whom she came. To all clearly understand how it is better than all those on whom he did not even look.



Such a woman of courage be typed - and will be face to face with those with whom, it turns out to actual fact, it should not be.



She narrowed her eyes, depict the passion, stoically endure moral humiliation, because at least he and idol, but still completely unknown person.



And all this is, in fact, just to make the next day to tell her friends: "Oh, he is amazing man!". I read in their eyes envy. And revel in the triumph of our own ...



attempt to translate the tale to life.



On the TV screen, he plays the role of macho or delightful singing voice, it seems ideal.



Thus, the Prince, the collective image, which is still in childhood is firmly settled in the beautiful mind of every woman.



And each is looking for this prince of the passers-by checks of all men met with the mosaic of virtues and graces, which she folded with the help of his imagination.



And then he appears on screen: well-groomed, handsome, with a velvety voice, with a smile, so open and sincere, with eyes deep in which to drown ...



Usually, sex with a star in such a scenario - not just a physiological act, but also the soul.



After all, she tries to please him, so wants to please, hoping that he will appreciate what she is extraordinary.



As he understands it - his second half. Obsessed with love and sex - or not say.



But, unfortunately, upon closer examination it appears that he is not so perfect.



He did not have such smooth skin, as the photographs, he smelled no way she would have liked his facial expression it rather boring.



And after one night of passion her ardor, her obsession with ... extinguished. And she will either seek the prince in the zone are not so distant contact, or turn their attention to other stars.



desire to become famous and desirable.



Well, or get in a secular society. Or at least for a moment to find himself under the camera flashes. Perhaps the novel does not get a long night and will remain only at night.



But the front page of a fashionable woman's magazine will be her picture - smiling, holding his arm and follows him into the room.



Who knows - maybe at her, a bright and spectacular, will draw the attention of some tycoon.



And life will cease to be so prosaic, and interest shifted to the area of Rublyovka. You never can tell?



But - plans artless and almost disinterested. It happens all the much more prosaic ...



Comment specialist



Yevgeny Kul'gavchuk doctor sexologist, therapist, psychiatrist:



"If you omit the mercantile and pragmatic interests, which often are the result of specific training, such as reduced self-esteem of these women and attempt to raise it at another's expense.



The girls are going out of poverty as their own emotional life, and from the "stuck" in the platonic stage of psychosexual development. In addition, there is a distortion of reality against the background of masochistic tendencies. This condition requires psychotherapeutic work to return to normal life.



Temporary platonic passion in adolescence may be within normal limits, provided that in life remain and other components (education, work, communication with relatives). Course, slavish worship may like "stars" and flatter their vanity, but deep down they often feel contempt for such an internal fan. "



How much does a night with a star?



No, I do not have to pay it, and idol. For what? All trite and simple.



Almost no day is complete without that any rating is not a tabloid published a shocking news: "The actor N is a natural child of fans Y!".



There are, of course, obvious nonsense.



Soloist of the popular British band Culture Club Boy George was charged with one of his vozdyhatelnits that he is the father of her child, but does not want to pay alimony.



In response to such insinuations singer indignantly declared: "I never slept with women!".



Of course, most often it is nothing more than fiction once the fans and jerking the desire for a large alimony and make sure that her name was on the hearing of the world.



But many are well aware that a DNA expert to easily refute such psevdofakty ... A star child - this is the golden child!



Such "umelitsy" watched his idol at home, go to all his concerts, and after they had taken hundredth autograph - only to draw attention to himself.



They defiantly painted to be more visible against the background of all the other fans, they are louder than the others chant from the audience, and in the eyes stare starry victim simply is the brutal lust.



And because many get their way - not in the sense that give birth to a child from an idol, and that in his bed still fall.



And there unsuspecting potential future father waiting for quite a cunning ploy. More precisely, the trick is always the same: "No need to protect themselves, because ...".



And these "because" - set. For example, "I accept contraception" or "I do not like to have sex in a condom."



Unfortunately, many men - and there is no difference in stellar accessories - to protect themselves is not so fond of.



Worse: prefer to engage in unprotected sex, citing the fact that he is a great pleasure. And then, when the goal is reached, begin direct blackmail ...



True, sometimes women want a child from the star in the not criminal purposes. Exclusively for love ...



Not too exceptional housewife from Beverly Hills, sent John Travolta quite an unusual request: she asked her to sell the sperm of the actor, because he wants to have his child, while explaining that sexual intercourse is not going to.



Biological Material actor woman appreciated ... 1 million dollars!



John Travolta has refused to conclude a deal in the air of one of the TV show, ironically adding: "Now, if she offered $ 10 million, I would have thought."



***



Sex with the star ... Sounds, of course, very tempting. But is it wise to such a desire?



Think about it: most of the stars openly declare that their annoying annoying the fans, trying at all costs to gain access to their bodies.



Yes, and a fan of readily available for them - not one in a thousand, but on the contrary, one of many.



Should I wish for sex with someone who not only appreciate, but do not even try to do this, do not wish to?



After all, every woman around so many real men, gentle and caring, interesting, open, honest, with its advantages and disadvantages that make them unique.



Here's to them and we should indulge in love, build families, give birth to their children ...



Anyway, choose what you like, without going to extremes, without losing common sense and self-esteem. You Passionate nights!

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