Pluses and minuses of virtual sex

Virtual sex is becoming more popular: search the internet network issue many references to this theme, offering customers a worldwide network of sex chat rooms, special programs and so on ... But is there any advantages to the virtual sex and whether it is worth it to do?





Under the virtual sex and sex can be understood on the phone, communicate via sms erotic content.



But today's article - about virtual sex online. With the use of webcams and headsets, special programs, or only through rapid communications in a special sex chat, he still is cybersex.



Let's try to understand why sex with virtual partners became so popular.



Pluses



1. Risk of unwanted pregnancy does not exist



Well, this by itself - is it possible to get pregnant, dealing with Wirth partner via webcam or text by typing on the keyboard of his computer.



Therefore the question of preservation, of course, disappears once - you do not have in anticipation of a night of love with the monitor to run to the drugstore and stock up on condoms.



And if virtual sex happens unplanned, you can not deny myself the pleasure of the reason that fear to become a mother.



2. STDs will not threaten



In principle, the points from the same series as unwanted pregnancy.



Naturally, having no real tactile contact, infected with anything it was simply impossible - even banal SARS, not that STDs.



This, of course, this point even more advantages than the previous one - in fact a cure for AIDS has not yet been found.



And how many people require help from their partner sexually transmitted infection clinic that he is not the bearer of this terrible disease?



3. It becomes possible to find a partner for a few minutes



Find a sex partner - this is often a fairly lengthy process.



To get started, usually with a partner to get to know, after - to find common ground (to know him better, to communicate), and only when it is time for sexual intercourse; agree, is not such a big percentage of women agreed to have sex with absolutely unknown man encountered in a bar or club.



But in finding a sexual partner, virtual, everything happens much faster and easier: just go to the sex forum, "select" a suitable candidate (often a choice based on the principle "you have an interesting nickname), and" retire "in private (or withdraw from the forum and start a virtual sex via webcams and headsets).



4. You are not raped



Given that the propensity of a new partner to distortions often they were not openly expressed, there are cases when a girl, first agreeing to spend the night with a new man is in a deadlock.



Meeting at his home can be not only enjoyable copulation your languishing passion of a pair, but the most severe variation of group sex - in fact it may well be invited to your meeting your friends.



But more often the case the situation is different: man, sex with whom you may happen is not the first time, persistently requires you to implement his sexual fantasies. This can be anything up to a hard sadomasochistic.



And it not a fact that when you refuse to submit to his demands, he and best wishes to take you home ...



Often, when the partner's desire to go against the wishes of the partner, the latter yields to her lover, and agrees, for example, to anal intercourse, which, to put it mildly, it was not to their liking - and then feels humiliated and raped - in moral terms, of course, but it is easier from this woman?



Virtual sex you can stop at any time if you do not agree with his desires, or simply changed their mind, - and you do not have to fear negative consequences.



5. This is a chance to get rid of the complexes



We can say that part of the paragraph is a continuation of the previous one.



For example, you do not like to engage in anal sex, but your sexual partners Reale persistently sought to "inculcate" you love him.



Virtual sex may well become an assistant in the acquisition of a new look at the previously unloved in sexual relations.



But there are more important thing: for example, you hesitate to have sex in broad daylight (due to, for example, believe that their figure is far from ideal).



But this is nothing but a complex - this you can say any sexologist.



Virtual sex via a webcam in principle, impossible in the dark, so it may help get rid of this - and not only that - a psychological time.



6. You can dream up plenty



Most of all - that is, if virtual sex happens in the chat.



You can imagine yourself what you like, but most importantly - to present as his sexual partner, even Brad Pitt.



You can nafantazirovat environment in which there is sexual contact, music, odors, postures, technology - anything.



In general, create illusory picture of his dreams - and your partner will support you, that life is not that often.



Cons



1. With a virtual partner of tactile sensations



That do not say, as a virtual partner exists only on your computer screen as a live view (if you are a virtual love via webcam), or multiple messages.



He can not kiss you, caress, and so on. He will never be able to enter into your heart - all this have to do to you, so to speak, for two.



Many engaged in cyber-sex, stroking the screen, at peak times if trying to touch someone who is a partner. But they will never be able to do so ...



2. It's too complicated way to get an orgasm



In essence, virtual sex - through a webcam and headset or chat in sex chat room - this is just masturbation.



Even a live conversation with the chosen sex partners who are "on the other side of the World Wide Web, use a vibrator and other paraphernalia from the shop for adults do not make an act of self-satisfaction from intercourse with a real partner.



But if, using your webcam, your hands are free and you can stimulate their erogenous zones as you like, then sex chat - quite a complicated thing.



Not so easy at the same time trying to get an orgasm, and print the answers erotic content on the keyboard.



Moreover, there is a moral dimension. Many people, deciding on a virtual sex, unable to "break yourself" and exposed himself to a stranger, or to paint all of its intimate charm in all its glory.



3. Cyber sex is unlikely to be the beginning of a serious relationship in Reale



When people find their love in a worldwide network, units, and they are rather "exception to the rule." But such people binds only communication ...



With virtual sex all the more difficult. It is very difficult: to agree to meet someone who saw you masturbating (ie, engaged in virtual sex with you, that, essentially, the same as stated above) in front of a webcam installed on your home computer screen, or even with those to whom you wrote in the sex chat so candid things.



Moreover, in the sex chat rooms, many lie about their appearance and sexual preferences, so the meeting will expose the reality of total lies ...



Still, it should be recognized that virtual sex - it just sort of fun, and not a way to meet the unique and unrepeatable.



4. You are unlikely to get moral satisfaction



Sexual satisfaction for women is often impossible without a moral. She just need to feel cherished and unique.



After all, why so many women want to talk after sex, and not only on the just concluded the sexual act?



Because it is very important to know that she was interested in a partner rather than simply meet the object of lust.



And how can I get this same moral satisfaction through virtual sex? Send a message to him, "How I was good with you? Sit webcam and jointly plan for the future?



5. You will not know anything about your partner



Especially if you have virtual sex in the sex chat.



He can tell you about myself, what he pleases, to describe myself in this Alain Delon - and in fact would be a taxi driver in the little gray forever greasy jacket.



You also can not be sure that he will be unmarried - and for many, especially single in real life, women's status of a partner, even virtual, has a value.



You can not also be sure that it does not begin to tell users of the same sex-chat, what you're bad lover or, conversely, a good that is unlikely to be pleased to know one day from one of the regulars of the chat.



Also, he may well write your "holy night", if you had sex through the webcam, and distribute pornozapis in the same online. Would you like that?



6. You can too carried away by a virtual life



In principle, the search for virtual sex partner can already be considered a kind of bell that the real life you do not have everything in order.



After all, most likely began with a lot of time in standard chat rooms, and communicate with real people gradually began to go into the background.



After all, agree that it is not quite normal that if you have many men next door (you're one day meet a huge number of representatives of the strong half of mankind, is not it?) A woman begins to look for a partner for sexual comfort stations for the World Wide Web?



The worst thing that slowly your life can completely move into the virtual space. especially considering that not so few people are currently working on the Internet from home.



But Internet addiction - is already a disease.



Virtual or real sex - what to choose?



Of course, you can not decide for you, what more suitable for you.



For example, virtual sex may help to cope with the complexes - and it is a very good thing, because sexual complexes do not provide the whole gamut of feelings from the congress, which is available in full emancipation of man.



On the other hand, there is also another option: you get rid of the complexes only in its virtual private life, but in reality they are so you will remain.



Only that: the complexes can be added here. For example, you begin to fear the real-life partners because they feel unable to meet them just as well as satisfy the virtual.



Or another possible disadvantage: engaging in virtual sexual intercourse, you may lose the ability to get an orgasm with a partner.



But it is possible that this place takes plus minus: you will find a new erogenous zone, understand where and how you want to caress, and get a real orgasm with a partner will be much easier.



And yet I am anxious to mark their opinion.



Advances in technology - it is very good, on the one hand, and very bad, with a different point of view.



The emergence of the Internet - is a breakthrough, the ability to create a e-mail and use it for his own pleasure can receive a letter in a few seconds after it is sent to your companion, and not to purchase the envelopes and long not to state the addresses as needed tickers ...



But this is bad: we have forgotten how to write letters - and we get a letter through the mail is much more pleasant. In any case, me.



With the invention of ICQ has become possible to exchange instant messages with people who are at the other end of the Earth.



But this is bad: feeling, tone, expressed in a telephone conversation have been replaced by smiles, and it became painfully dry and laconic ...



Cyber sex - not whether he will replace us real? Will the real sex, as in the famous film, whose names I do not remember the name "exchange of fluids?



I still think that sex - is not just a set of movements, but also interweaving of souls.



And fall asleep on the shoulder of the person with whom you spent an unforgettable night, and that you likable - it can not replace a lonely sleep at the computer is off. Although, who knows ...



Choose something that is close to you. But do not forget that the replacement for the human soul is not found, and is unlikely to be found.